Today, in this fast-paced, unpredictable world, not only is change
inevitable, it is happening more quickly than ever before. It is
becoming a way of life.
It's
not enough that we have to deal with the normal personal changes that
we all go through in life, but these days we also have broader issues
to contend with such as the global economy, the domestic economy (job
loss, company closures), the environment, technology, and changing
cultural values.
As challenging and difficult as it may be, and as resistant we are
to it, we have to learn to manage change. Most of us are comfortable
with the known and uncomfortable with the unknown (see Expand
Your Comfort Zone).
It is in our best interests, however, to learn to accept change and
welcome its challenges. We can come to terms with the fact that it can
actually be good for us since it helps us develop and encourages us to
grow.
Here are some helpful tips and strategies
for change management:
Take care of yourself.
Eat a balanced diet, exercise, get enough rest. Take time to
relax. When you are healthy, you are better equipped and in a better
frame of mind to handle anything.
Be open and flexible.
Knowing that change can occur at any time helps you accept
and adjust to it when does happen. Be able to let go of expectations
that no longer fit what is currently going on in the world. Even
though most of us prefer to settle into comfortable routines,
realize that your present routine may only be temporary.
We all have the ability to control our inner and emotional
responses to whatever happens, our attitudes towards it, and how we
choose to deal with it. Look for the positive
outcomes of change. How you react to it can often determine the
outcome.
Take control of your life.
Use your critical
thinking skills. We know some change is forthcoming. What can
you do in advance to help yourself in the transition? Make a list of
options. Determine the best approaches. Take charge of your thoughts
and actions.
Make changes.
Become the change agent. Sometimes we are forced into making
changes because we allow ourselves to get stuck in a routine or
lifestyle that is no longer working for us. If, however, we
anticipate it and become active rather than reactive, we can take
control of the situation. We can look at where we need to make
adjustments and then take action. Doing so can prevent the stress
and anxiety that accompany unexpected change.
Change in life is inevitable. Rather than fear
or try avoid it, our best course of action is to accept
it, meet it head on and allow it to be a positive, constructive force
in our lives.