"Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen." Ralph Waldo Emerson
Good or sound decision-making is necessary for living life productively and efficiently.
All of us are confronted with various decisions to make on a daily basis. Some are small and of minor consequence while others are huge and potentially life changing. Some are simple and obvious choices; others are more difficult and painstaking.
For those that are complex and difficult to make, there is a process we can follow to help us come up with a good solution.
The Keys To Making a Good Decision
Identify the decision to be made as well as the objectives or outcome you want to achieve.
Do your homework. Gather as many facts and as much information you can to assess your options.
Brainstorm and come up with several possible choices. Determine if the options are compatible with your values, interests and abilities.
Weigh the probabilities or possible outcomes. In other words, what’s the worst that can happen? What will happen if I do A, B or C and can I live with the consequences?
Make a list of the pros and cons. Prioritize which considerations are very important to you, and which are less so. Sometimes when you match the pros against the cons you may find them dramatically lopsided.
Solicit opinions and obtain feedback from those you trust or have had a similar situation to contend with. There may be some points you haven’t considered.
Make the decision and monitor your results. Make sure you obtain the desired outcome.
Points To Consider
Certainly there no guarantees that a decision will be correct and so you must be prepared to take risks.
By the same token, look for the opportunities. If you make a mistake, view it as an opportunity to learn what didn’t work and why. Many times decisions are reversible and you can change your mind.
On occasion you might discover things in hindsight that may have affected your decision had you known about them earlier. This is normal and typical but should not stall your decision-making process.
If you’ve done everything you can to make a good decision and still can’t make up your mind, do not delay making an important decision for fear that you don’t know enough or will make the wrong choice.
Sometimes people become so paralyzed with the fear of making a wrong decision that they panic and lose sight of what they’re trying to accomplish.
When that happens it hinders making a good decision. Likewise, try not to second-guess yourself. In the end it too undermines what you're trying to accomplish.
When all is said and done, all you can do is do the best with what you have to work with. If all else fails go with your gut feeling. Quite often it may be all you have to go by.