Each day you have the ability for choosing to take control of your life, or to let it control you. You can either be proactive, or you can be reactive by allowing various circumstances to call the shots.
To take control of your life, or exercise personal leadership, is to take responsibility for yourself and for every area of your life.
It means being connected with your values and vision and setting meaningful goals for yourself. When you take control, you become more productive and more optimistic. You are able to tackle and solve problems more easily, and ultimately experience less stress in your life.
No doubt, with all the chaos and uncertainty going on in the world these days it may be difficult to feel like you are in charge of your life, and while there are some things you have no control over, there are plenty you do.
Understand that you are the principal architect and creator of your life and where you are now is a result of the choices and decisions you have made thus far.
interesting concept that I came across in my readings
recently is one whereby you see yourself as the CEO of your own life.
If you were to apply this concept to yourself, how
would you run your life? What type of strategic planning would you
in and how would you envision your future? I expect seeing
yourself as the CEO of your life would inspire you to
think more productively, efficiently, and in a more
As your own CEO, here are some ways in which you can take control of your life and exercise personal leadership:
✔ Determine your values and what's important to you. As I wrote in Have A Personal Value System, knowing what you value gives you structure and purpose which, in turn, directs you on how to focus your time and efforts. It would be similar to a company's 'mission statement'. As you probably know, a mission statement typically defines the overall goals and drives the actions of an organization. It likewise provides a roadmap and guides the decision-making processes for management.
Your life your mission statement could be something like: "My purpose is to live life to the fullest by taking the care of my, relationships, finances and overall happiness to the best of my abilities."
When you state your objective so succinctly, you can't help but focus on taking the right actions for where you want to be. Doing so, also helps keep you from being aimless and scattered, and avoids getting into hit and miss situations.
✔ Plan, be organized, and set goals. Envision the big picture of your desired life and then break it down into manageable parts. For everything you want to accomplish, you need a strategy or action plan. To begin, set goals appropriate to your mission statement and then devise a plan on how to go about achieving them.
Nothing happens by itself; so take charge of your life - take the bull by the horns. Rather than daydreaming or 'wishing' for what you want, set the wheels for success in motion by goal setting and planning. In fact, the planning stages can actually be fun and challenging! Not only will you achieve your objectives, but you will also sharpen your critical thinking and problem-solving skills in the process.
The most successful CEOs in the world, at the best companies, are those who set realistic, achievable goals, plan the best strategies, and then execute them accordingly. They also set priorities, organize their tasks and duties and make sure all the different departments are running smoothly and efficiently. There is a famous quote that states, "If you fail to plan, you plan to fail."
✔ Maintain a positive attitude.
Sometimes, when your best efforts to take control of your life
don't go according to plan,
one of the hardest things to do is remain
positive. As any CEO will tell
you, obstacles and roadblocks inevitably get in the
way of any launch or rollout.
In a similar example, ask any athlete, inventor, or composer whether
every endeavor comes together smoothly for them and
without any glitches? Definitely not!
The quality or character trait that separates those who succeed from those who do not is a positive attitude and an unshakable belief in themselves. They do not let negative thoughts or obstacles get in the way of ultimate achievement. Of course, that doesn't mean it's easy; it means that persistence and focus are necessary.
Those who cannot maintain control of their lives, often give up at first sign of trouble or difficulty. When that happens, all else seems to unravel as well, and they mistakenly feel they have no control of anything at all. This type of mindset is both counterproductive and detrimental to progress. Maintaining a positive attitude is absolutely essential for taking control of your life.
✔ Have fun. While taking control of your life involves a lot of planning, strategy and executing, it could weigh you down if you forget to take time for some fun. Living a full, productive life requires maintaining a balance between work, relaxation and recreation. Too much structure makes Jack or Jill a dull person.
To take control of your life try an experiment by envisioning yourself as the CEO of your personal company - your own life. The concept alone will make you feel more in control. Then start making the types of plans, choices and decisions you would expect a successful CEO makes. It will suprise you how much more in control of your life you will feel. It may take some practice and role playing, but the outcome will be - YOU in control of your life.